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Johnny Cash blessed the book and supposedly was going to write the foreword before he passed away. But his fingerprints are all over it. In fact, most of this unusual memoir is written by the Man in Black — fully 75 percent of the page book is love letters he wrote to Vivian while he was an Air Force serviceman stationed in Germany from to The two had met at a roller-skating rink in her hometown of San Antonio and engaged in a whirlwind three-week romance before he shipped out to Europe.

Sharpsteen said she and Vivian sifted through almost 10, pages of love letters the two wrote each other while they were apart.

Vivian's sister Sylvia Flye, who proofread some of the book, said she had a reason for including so many of the love letters. She wanted to show people she wasn't the ogre. Though Vivian never saw the movie, she was aware, friends say, that she was depicted unflatteringly, almost as a shrew.

The book's concluding section, in which Vivian is very open about the triangle, has raised eyebrows among her friends. Though Vivian confided in some of them, she was a private sort who usually talked about Johnny only when others brought it up.

The last part "was very enlightening to me," said Suzanne Dunn of Oxnard. Helen Boyd of Ventura said Vivian told her some things but added, "It wasn't hatred or venom or anything like that. And she didn't speak hostilely about June Carter. Longtime friend Cynthia Burell noted that Vivian didn't have it easy going through all this, and holding it back so long also was tough.

To be sort of overlooked was very hurtful; it would have been hurtful to anyone. And in her situation, it was worse because he was a very public figure. It did hurt her, said Cindy Cash. On that subject, her mother was frustrated and "feeling invisible. But rather than being the shattered ex-wife, Vivian — at least outwardly — threw herself into life and the community.

She was a three-term president of the Garden Club of San Buenaventura and did volunteer work for the county hospital and a home for unwed mothers in Los Angeles, among other things. Those who knew her, from close friends to casual acquaintances, unfailingly speak of her in glowing terms — kind, generous, down to earth, socially engaging, a decorating guru and an ace hostess, always ready with her trademark afghans and homemade treats.

Boyd coordinated volunteers at the Ventura County Medical Center for years and remembers Vivian as "gracious, modest and a bit shy. I liked her a lot. Vivian's Ventura foothills home had an indoor pool and was impeccably decorated. She loved entertaining people there. Said Dunn, who knew her from the Garden Club, "She had an innate sense of style in her dress and her home. Fran Diamond, the manager of Scott's Apparel in Ventura when Vivian briefly worked there, called her "an all-around fun person.

Bonaventure's Fiesta fundraisers in the mids while her son and two of the Cash daughters were in school there and remembers Vivian did whatever it took to help the effort. Smith, who met Vivian through selling cosmetics, said every room in her house has something she made for her.

Cindy Cash said her mom was "completely devoted to being a mother. But he wasn't far from her mind. Winifred Singleton of Camarillo gave Vivian machine-knitting lessons at her home in the early s and recalled that Vivian once interrupted a session so she could watch a Johnny Cash special on television. She thought that was odd until Vivian told her she was once married to him. It was hard for many to read Vivian, including Flye, her sister.

She found out about the divorce in the media. It came as a shock to Flye. She had looked on the Vivian-Johnny relationship with envy and thought it was a wonderful marriage and great love "until pills and June interfered and I don't know which one came first.

Vivian nee Liberto writes that she met Johnny Cash on July 18, , at a roller-skating rink in San Antonio when he asked her for a skate near closing time. He wasn't good on skates, she recalls, but made up for it by crooning along to the Rosemary Clooney tune playing at the time.

A quick romance ensued before the Air Force sent Johnny to Germany. They promised to write each other — and did they ever. Johnny's letters over the three years came in a flurry, sometimes one a day, and are full of love, innocence and the famous Cash humor. The son of Arkansas cotton farmers, Cash wrote once of living in a room with "dumb selfish Yankees," adding, "I'm thinking about reviving the Civil War.

Cash wrote of being lonely, feeling insecure. His tone was often tender, writing in one, "You are the only one for me — for always. I'm not drunk honey. I just dreamed up that name. The letters, with the benefit of perfect hindsight, can be viewed as harbingers of Cash's later behavior. Several times, he wrote of being drunk or being with other women, remorsefully promising Vivian he wouldn't do it again, only to repeat it.

Vivian who relates that she went out with guys back home doesn't address that head-on but writes of being "crazy in love" then and in the first part of the marriage. Director Matt Riddlehoover told Texas Standard host David Brown that his interest in telling this story was partially personal. And the long absences.

Liberto was a Catholic school girl who met handsome Air Force cadet Johnny Cash at a roller-skating rink. When he was stationed in Germany, Riddlehoover said they wrote thousands of love letters over the course of three years that Liberto saved her entire life. Rosanne Cash was born nine months after they married and Cash released his first single on Sun Records a month later. Johnny would soon be on the road, leaving Vivian at home for long stretches at a time. The family, which now included daughters Kathy and Cindy, lived in a house they purchased from future Tonight Show host Johnny Carson.

On the rare occasions when Johnny was home, the Cashes would host barbecues and parties at their home in a remote spot overlooking Casitas Springs, California — Tex Ritter, Patsy Cline, and June Carter all attended. The appearance of an interracial marriage was a damaging accusation in the South and several Cash concerts were canceled, with hate groups targeting the couple and causing continued fear for the family.

Shortly after the furor died down, Vivian filed for divorce hoping that Johnny would return home more frequently. Instead, he let the divorce go through, moving into an apartment north of Nashville with Waylon Jennings. While Vivian and the daughters remained in California, Johnny moved out of the apartment, so his kids could visit, and into the lakefront house in Hendersonville, Tennessee, where he would reside for the remainder of his life. Vivian and her daughters moved into a new house and she met police officer Dick Distin, who was married when they began dating.

Shortly after his divorce, the couple married. Rosanne recalls witnessing her mother as she left her body, becoming a young girl again.